Is it true that ignoring him will give him time to actually miss me?

6 months ago, and 2 states away, we talked on the phone EVERY night for hours telling each other that we missed the other, him calling over 30 times a day to tell me what was going on with him and etc. Three months ago, he took off of work, rented a car, left at 5:30am Saturday, paid for the major things like the rental, the hotel, then the suite in Florida, the gas, the dining and drove 8 hours to Louisiana to come and get me, drove further past GA by 5am the next morning with still no sleep, freestyling with me in the front seat and stopped in his hometown in Florida to go ahead and take a two day vacation there with me in Pensacola, and hopped back on the road to Atlanta Monday afternoon, because I was moving there so we could finally be together. And he’s said that that was one of the things he regrets he did. Those words hurt so much. He said it has set him back financially. That that’s money he doesn’t have now. Four weeks ago, my ex which is 22 started distancing himself from me- no call, no show. A week ago, he “officially” broke up with me. If it makes a difference. I messed up and did the typical thing a girl does when she gets dumped by the man she loves. Persistence. And I’m nervous that that may have made any chance even slimmer.



"Sometimes I wanna be around you, and sometimes I wanna be by myself. I like being by myself"

"I would be dumb to break up with you, so I would rather you break up with me" (that wasn’t gonna happen)

“I’ve been coming to your house almost every night for the past two months. I don’t know, I’m just losing it. It’s not there anymore.”

"i keep telling you it's not you, it's me"

“I’m not feeling the relationship thing anymore”

“Sometimes I wanna see other people”

"i'm depressed right now, thinking about seeing a therapist"

"but i don't want to look up and see you with another guy"

“I want to be free to do what I want, when I want”

“I’ve never been good with relationships”

“I’m greedy, I’m stingy okay?”

“I don’t want to have to worry about anyone and their feelings”

“I said a lot of things I shouldn’t have said”

“I need to work on myself, we’ll work on it”

“I don’t want to see you right now. there’s nothing to work on, nothing we need to talk about”….etc…

It was like finding pieces to a puzzle, which one?

And there did turn out to be another girl in the picture. A girl he had been telling me since July, was his cousin in California when I would read the disturbing comments she wrote on his page, and see her calling him everynight he was at my house from a- sure enough- Cali area code. But I think she came down to ATL recently and that's when he started behaving even worse than three weeks ago...

To make a long story short, it’s been a week since we officially broke up and Saturday was the last time I tried to contact him. I know it’s only Monday, but the days are long and the nights seem even longer. I wonder all day, if he’s thinking about me, or what he could be doing that he won’t call me. I see similar questions on here about will your ex miss you if you don’t contact him. But not only did he want to break up, he didn’t even want to be friends. If i don't contact him for a while, is there still a chance that he will miss me and call me?Is it true that ignoring him will give him time to actually miss me?
Just leave him alone, don't call or message him at all. Don't worry about him and if he finds he misses you then he'll be the one to contact you. But if there's another girl in his life that he obviously thinks is more important then he's not worth it. The reason he took that vacation withyou was because he wanted to try to still love you more than he loved that other girl. Atleast he put an effort to try to stay with you before he gave it up.Is it true that ignoring him will give him time to actually miss me?
sometimes that works but not all the time so just becarefull with all those guys in the world and hopes this helps god blessIs it true that ignoring him will give him time to actually miss me?
yeah if he really liked you.
I don't want to be mean but it seems that you've missed the clue bus darling. He's got another girl. It would seem that the callous jerk could at least have broken it off with you and told you what was going on instead of stringing you along, but some guys will do that if you're giving it up just so they have some. You should definitely NOT call him and forget the loser even exists. Find a guy that is worthy of your devotion, not some loser that will squander it and then complain about the expense, the jerk. As for your question, he is not going to miss you and if he does for some reason come back in the future talking that "I miss you" crap you should ask him if he was missing you while he was kissing her and that will keep you strong against him if you still have any feelings for him. Trust me, you're better off without him. He'll just break your heart over and over if you let him.