1. Is this cheating? 2. Should I ask him about it or see how long it goes?What is considered cheating to you? PLEASE HELP?
whoa! yea, this sounds very suspicious! Is there anyway you could look through his phone when u guys see each other? See if there is any way he treats you differently. Maybe he's losing interest. See how long this goes, but don't be dumb and sit waiting. Pretend his lack of interest doesn't phase you for the time being- until you get proof. When you get proof that there is another girl he is trying to get at, I think you should get the clue he is not trustworthy. If that is a quality you find important (as you should) in a guy, I think you should leave him!
I think it is cheating if the intent is to do something beyond texting and flirting. If he wants to meet... NOT OKAY!
Its not cheating. but it deffinitly sounds like what its leading too.What is considered cheating to you? PLEASE HELP?
1. Yes, definetly
2. Try to get involved!!
POSSIBLY talking to someone else...you think that is cheating? C'mon....you're smarter than this, I know it. He must cheat with you every time he calls 411 too.What is considered cheating to you? PLEASE HELP?
I think you are over reacting quite a bit. I mean there is no evidence that its a girl at all actually. It isnt cheating until he does something btw. You CAN ask him about it. But it may lead to a trust argument. But honestly there is no proof of anything besides that he is texting someone. For all you know it could be a guy =o
how do you know its a girl. If you are paying for the bill confront him about it. If he has no good answer (which i don't think there is) then dump him and cancel the phone.
ask him about it
ok definately ask him about it and see what he says if it sounds like hes lying then well he is cheating, but dont just see how long it goes.
he's on YOUR cell phone plan! ask him about it, and if his answer is not good enough cut him off
Hmmm, it can be interperated as cheating. I recommend you get involved.
1. It's not cheating, but I definitely think it could potentially lead to cheating.
2. Yes, you should definitely ask him about it before things get out of hand.
if you and him are officially together, then you need to ask him whose number it is, and why he was texting that person, if it is a female that he also met in the chat room, then yes, he is cheating on you,
Why is he on your cell phone plan, you only met a year ago and he lives 7 hours away. That's just crazy. Ditch him and get a man closer to you, that's your best bet, you can't build a relationship 7 hours away from each other especially when he's texting other women.
Yes...it is! When a person in a relationship shares himself/herself with someone outside of the relationship and doesn't let his partner know, it's cheating. If you've got nothing to hide, hide nothing!
course hes cheating. it dont have to be sexual intercourse, its the implied implications of what hes doing, its desrespecting you, and you should kick his **** to the floor.
Lol, internet love. He is getting to know her as he did you. If he hasn't yet he is showing all the tell tale signs that he is. Plus he totally ditched you for her. Confront him then dump him!
Its only cheating if he releases in her presence.
He is likely not interested in you as he found his new weird fetish text relationship.
I don't think it could be considered cheating (yet...) since you don't know the content of the texts. But if you find out that he was texting a female inapropriately while he was in a relationship with you, it could be something leading to chating. But how do you know it was a female he was texting? For now, you should give him the benefit of doubt and assume that he was texting one of his friends or something. If you're really worried (I would be too, since it's a long distance relationship and you don't see everything), maybe you should call your phone company and see if there's any way you could see the content of the texts.
If there's no way you can see the texts, you should ask him about it. But you shouldn't ask in a possessive type of way, just mention you saw the texts being sent that late and you were wondering who he was texting that much. If you seem untrustworthy, it could lead to a argument. You do have the right to know if you're the one paying for the texts.
Good luck, I hope I helped!
just ask him about it. dont accuse him of anything though. just say you noticed a number not near either of you and were wondering who it was...hopefully hes honest, good luck
hey wats up?
Yeah it is cheating and you should get involved ASAP
You should definitely confront him about it. He is probably cheating on you..but who know? it could just be an old friend or something..and are you sure its even a girl?
Yeah I would consider that cheating. I don't know you but you are way too good for that. No guy has the right to make you feel the way you are feeling right now. Follow your heart and your gut!
I also have the same problem. We used to talk allot over the phone now its like he calls me when he goes to bed. He talks to allot of girls that are friends over the phone. What I would do if I were you I would tell him about it and how it makes you feel and ask him to talk to you more. If you say something and he keeps on doing it then he is not worth your time he doesn't respect what you say. I did this and I asked him to talk to me more he said ok but never happened that's when I knew it was over. Just remember if he really loves you he will change ...if not he not worth it
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